Find Yourself
- 14 October 2024
As you reconnect more intimately to yourself, little miracles start to happen. Life and business feels more effortless.
Find yourself in the absence of repetitive thinking about yourself
What?! You thought of that person 5 minutes ago and now they’re calling you.
Maybe you’re telepathic? Nah, you dismiss it, it’s a coincidence…
But then the next day, as you go into work calmer and more joyful, you find an email from that prospect you mindlessly chased last year, asking for a call about potentially doing some work with you.
Or at least, you start to notice them!
Life and business feels more effortless.
Not in “The Secret” style – anything you visualise will manifest – it’s less Disney and predictable than that.
But just as helpful, as you get more and more out of your own way and hang out in your natural state.
You start to appreciate how everyone is interconnected, and just how little overall control your non-stop chattering mind has.
As a result, your conversations become more impactful, as you show up with less riding on the outcomes.
Nor do you force yourself to make decisions in that stormy state if it’s not strictly necessary.
You recognise the limits of the conceptual world and make sure that you spend time in reality as much as possible:
With a quietish mind and present to what is. Not needing all the answers but knowing that they will come to you in their own time.
You become a much more effective leader as you stop telling yourself that you’re a bad one and trying to be a good one…
When you reconnect to yourself, you no longer have to constantly talk to yourself about “what you’re like”.
Bet cats don’t do that.
Read other articles in our ’Finding You’ series.
